How does this work?
The soul
How can I talk to "dead people"? How is that even possible? How does that work? - All very good and legitimate questions.
In my experience and perception we are not bodies who have a soul, we are a soul who chose a body. Our soul was around long before we were born and will continue to live after our physical death.
This is supported by the law of conservation of energy which states that energy cannot be created or destroyed, only transformed from one form to another.
Death is merely the transition of the soul. It leaves our physical body and returns to the Spirit World. The Spirit World is not in heaven or somewhere far away, it is here - with us. It is a parallel dimension, which is not materialistic and thus not tangible which might make it at bit more difficult to grasp.
We all are or have a soul. We, who are incarnate on this earth, have a physical body. Our loved ones who have passed on have shed this body like an old garment.
Their personality, their traits of character, their essence continues to live. Our body is merely a vessel.
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Mediumship
Can everybody do this? - Yes and no.
All of us are mediums to a certain degree. We have our intuition, our gut feeling the sixth sense.
We all know situations when we are, for example, driving on the highway and get a funny feeling that that car up front will pull over into our lane. We slow down a little - thank goodness because that car did pull over without any warning. Or we have such a good feeling regarding a job offer or we always walk home exactly the same way, just this one day, we took the detour only to bump into our old school friend whom we had not seen in years... there are endless examples.
We all have intuiton. However, we might have forgotten how to listen to it or our head is louder.
We can all speak to our loved ones in the Spirit World and ask them for signs.
When we meditate, we connect to our higher self, our inner self, our soul - whatever you want to call it. We still our minds and control our thoughts. We focus inwards.
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The clair-
senses
As a medium, I have six clair-senses:
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clairvoyance (seeing)
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clairaudience (hearing)
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clairsentience (feeling)
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clairolfactrience (smelling)
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clairgustance (tasting)
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claircognissance (knowing)
The "communicator" can show me memories, things, surroundings which I then see in front of my inner eye (= clairvoyance). I do not necessarily see the person the way they used to look, even though this is also possible. It is similar to an old memory: when you close your eyes, you might see your grandma's kitchen in every detail, what the cubboards looked like, where the table was, if there were curtains in the windows... this is similar to what clairvoyance is to me.
I like to explain clear-tasting by means of a lemon. Close your eyes and imagine you are cutting a lemon in two halves. You take one juicy half in your hand to smell it. You squeeze the lemon half and see the juice collecting on the surface. You are thinking about biting into the lemon... Even if you are not anywhere near a lemon, you might have made a lemon face. I do not drink coffee during our session, however, if your communicator was a coffee junkie, I might well taste coffee and I will know if they had their coffee black or with milk, hot or lukewarm.
The other clair-senses work the same way. It is not up to me to decide which clair-senses I use in our session. It is up to the communicator. They have access to all of them.
FAQ
What will our session look like?
If you have any further questions before we start, I will, of course, be happy to answer them at the beginning of our session. I do not require any information from you. I will ask you to please only reply with "Yes", "No" or "I don't know". Afterwards, I will connect with Spirit.
I will describe the communicator. I usually get the relationship but please keep an open mind. If your grandma was like a mother to you she can feel like a mom to me.
I let your people in the Spirit World talk so that you can recognize them. They describe themselves by their personality (humerous, ambitious, social) and by their job, hobbies, illnesses or similar. I do not influene the information. However, they present themselves in such way that you recognize them.
I give a voice to the communicator so that they can tell their story and that you remember memories, you know they are with you and maybe even feel them.
What can I not expect from our session?
I neither make any predictions, nor do I give advice (medical, legal or other).
If the communicator gives you advice I will of course pass it on to you. However, I will point out that it is merely their opinion. It is your life, your decison and your responsibility.
Even though your family and friends are now in Spirit, they are not enlightened. The just share their opinion like they used to when they were here because they care about you and mean well. Whether you listen to them or not is your choice.
I want to hear from one certain person
You can wish for a certain person in Spirit to come through. You can also tell this person about our appointment and ask them to join us. I'd say this works 80% of the time - however, I cannot make any promises. I am the medium only, the phone if you will, so I do not decide who "calls" you. If you are in the process of setting up your own business and your dad had always been self-employed and wants to share all his tips for your business he might well come through even though you really want to hear from you sister whom you miss terribly.
Spirit decides and it is always the right decision, even if you might see it differently at that moment.
Do I have to receive a contact from someone I do not want to hear from?
No, you do not. If the communicator is someone you do not want to hear from and with whom you are uncomfortable, I will ask the person to step away. This could happen because the person is now very well aware of what they did to you when they were here and wants to apologize. It is totally okay if you are not ready yet.
We will then ask someone else to step forward.
What happens if I do not recognize the communicator?
This should not happen. Why would someone join us whom you do not know? However, if you do not recognize the communicator after seven minutes I will reimburse your money.
It is quite common though for two communicators to come together. My dad loved to ride his bycicle. My grandpa was extremely tall. When a mediums says to me: "I have a gentleman with me who was really tall and loves to ride his bike." I know that they came together.
In this case I might need a hint from you.
What is my job as a sitter?
As sitter/recipient you merely need to remember to answer with "Yes", "No" or "I don't know" only. Giving further information is called "feeding the medium".
I want to give you evidence that your loved ones are still around. However, you would take this opportunity away from me (and them) if you give me details. Let your family and friends tell you.
How do I recognize a good medium?
You can usually recognize a good medium by their website. Where did they receive their education? I've seen websites of German mediums stating that they trained at the Arthur Findlay College. Since the AFC no longer offers training, this is rather unlikely. They probably attended courses there, like I did. The courses are excellent, and I highly recommend them, but they don't constitute formal training.
Is the medium continuing their education? For me, that's always a good sign. We as mediums never stop learning. Our mediumistic abilities continue to develop. If a medium says they've been able to communicate with the Spririt World since childhood, that's certainly a wonderful gift, but if the gift isn't trained, honed, and refined, then the quality will likely suffer over time.
Does the medium ask you questions, essentially "fishing" for information from you? A medium shouldn't ask you questions. If they don't understand a piece of information, they'll ask the communicator for clarification. Of course, there will be times when you reply with a "no". This doesn't mean the medium is not good. They simply misunderstood a detail at that moment. The question is, however, how they handle it. Do they ignore your "no" and start a completely new topic, or do they stick with the information and try to understand it correctly?
Does the medium let your communicator talk? You will recognize this when they are staying with one subject instead of jumping from topic to topic. Your person has come to talk to you and they know exactly what you need today.
How precise is the medium? Does the medium throw out a month? There are only twelve months in a year, and it's highly likely that either you or the communicator had some kind of life event in June. In my opinion, that's not proof. If anything, it should be the date and preferably also what kind of event.
Does the medium offer you a refund if you don't identify the communicator within a few minutes? Most mediums will state this on their website.